I really think that I should stop giving advice. It feels kinda awful when you know that you can't change certain thing. I'm glad when friends came to me and share with me with their issues. When they started to ask me what they should do, that's when I should take a step back. My advices is purely based on my own experiences and it's not proven that it will work on other people.
I often shared my life experiences with friends who practically lost their sense of direction at times. They often misunderstood that I literally tell them to do the exact as how I did in my past experiences. There comes the danger when I shared too much. I don't really care what others did because I only mind my business. What I dislike most is when I have to say, "I told you so". Immediately this four words made me feel so intelligent. If only I could foresee your future, I swear I will charge you by hour.
I'm just a normal human being. If you guys continue on asking me why is such and such is happening to you right now, I must be the God to have those answers. Most of our life experiences contributed to our maturity level and causes us to outgrown certain people.
I do not have the answer to why certain situation happened to you. But, I do know for sure if you continue asking too much why(s), practically you are wasting your every second and minute. What's even worst? You kept rewinding the same process over and over again. How many 5 or 10 years can you still waste it away?
If you don't really get what I've wrote above, fine. I'll be frank. I could really give you guys a very straight forward feedback if you really need my opinion so badly. I will not lie because I won't. Come to me if you don't mind getting a bitter taste of remarks from me. The best part is, the more bitter you feel of what others say about you, the more truth you will find out about yourself. Be blessed, because you know that is the ugly truth of who you really are. The truth is not always pleasant to the ears that is why they called it, "the ugly truth" isn't it?
What happens if you can't handle the ugly truth? So, you want only positive feedback which as good as lying forever to yourself and you are making others lying to you at the very same time. Denials. You are living in delusion. You can't accept negative comments. Yet you still want me to listen to your endless drama over and over again. Yes, I am willing to listen to those. But seriously, repetitively for the millionth time? Oh well, gone case. My mum taught me not to comment so much if I can't say good things to people. Period.
What happens if you can't handle the ugly truth? So, you want only positive feedback which as good as lying forever to yourself and you are making others lying to you at the very same time. Denials. You are living in delusion. You can't accept negative comments. Yet you still want me to listen to your endless drama over and over again. Yes, I am willing to listen to those. But seriously, repetitively for the millionth time? Oh well, gone case. My mum taught me not to comment so much if I can't say good things to people. Period.
