Stop Waiting, Start Moving!

Yay! I'm one step closer in realizing one of my dreams for Year 2013! I'm about to achieve going to a place where I want to be. For a holiday! I can't believed that I actually spent years telling myself that, I want to go on traveling but never get the effort of getting it done these years. 

How did I realized my dreams?

I have goals and dreams prepared like a map but, this will not enable me to get there. I have to get going! Begin working toward my goals. I believed one small step everyday will get me farther than what I may have thought. I have to be ready for obstacles on the way and be ready to do whatever needs doing to cope with them. 

Remember, success is always dependent upon you. You have to decide to become effective after which follow through, using what is needed to get it done. Of course, you are able to sit and dream all day long lengthy, but action is needed. 

DREAMS DON'T BECOME A REALITY BY THEMSELVES!

Decide. Imagine. Most significantly, do it!

I hope that you could work on toward realizing your dreams too. 

A Good Year

It's a brand new year. I feel so alive. Not just that the world doesn't come to an end, but I survived many hurdles and setbacks. I stand up again. Much higher after the fall. Things that happened last year, did not stopped me from moving forward. Life is really full of dramas anyway but it's all past tense now. 

I received a very good news recently from my lawyer. I am now officially single again! Yohoooooooooo!!!~ Shall I celebrate? I think I should go out meet more people now and then sign up for somewhat speed dating programme or get myself the most eligible bachelor and get married again. Freeing myself after the hell-through process, I feel so delighted that I made it this far. I never once doubted my subconscious that I am able to things. Incredible! I hug myself with glee.

I am now a part-time student again. I am going through the whole mad process again for at least another 5 years. Am I nuts? My friends out there are busy spending their money on traveling and splurging themselves. Why am I still restricting myself and going through this? :( Oh man, let's hope that I can get this done on target! I must preserve until the end to achieve that. I can do this. Yes, I definitely can.

I've been thinking for months. I plan to move to another country. Meaning, to leave Singapore for good. Yes, I spent my whole decade here and not getting what I want but I did gained my CAT. That's the only thing that I ever proud of. Could it be my divorce that causes me to leave here? Perhaps. I think it's just time for me to move on to chase for my dreams. There are so many things I wanted to do on my own. Live with no regrets. Trying very hard to achieve my dreams one by one. I'm sure the feeling of achievement it's indescribable!

My Project 1

Recently I joined a club, which is Toastmaster. When I was first being introduced of Toastmaster, I don't know what was it all about. I never heard of Toastmaster before. I thought it was a course for people to learn how to toast bread or something similar like that but it was not! So, toastmaster is a club for people like me who wants to improve on their public speaking skills and to overcome the fear of stage speech.

Last month, I attended their first meeting. I did my first project of stage speech in front of 15 strangers. All I have to do is to deliver my speech within the time count of 4-6 minutes. I can talk about anything but normally for the first time, you need talk about yourself as an introduction.

So, I did it. For the first time, I gave out my stage speech. To my surprised, I didn't expected that I was being evaluated as being the best newbie speaker afterwards! I was delighted.

I know that my current profession doesn't require such skill for me to advance. I needed it because I want to prove to myself that there are a lot of things that are certainly that I can achieve only if I am willing to do so. I may not needed the skill right now but it doesn't mean I don't get to use it in the future.

I wanted so much to do all the things which I do not dare to do previously and I'm gonna do it!

Am I The Best Speaker?

Just 2 hours ago, I won the title: Best Speaker by giving my first ever stage speech. Are you amazed? More will be revealed in my next post.